3 ways of defining a family:

Structural: Families are seen primarily as social or demographic structures that contain and connect particular individuals.

Le poire (2006): biological ties, legal definitions and sociological definitions.

9 kinds of family:

  1. Nuclear family: Parents plus their genetically related children

  2. Extended family: Centered around a nuclear family, but also includes grandparents, aunts, cousins, and all other living forms of blood relatives.

  3. Family of origin: The parent who you are born to (and spend most of your life with)

  4. Family of descent: Historical family tree from which you are descended, both living and dead.

  5. Family of generatively: Self-started family where you are one of the parents of at least one child.

  6. Family of choice: Family without genetic connection (adoption, pets or friends)

  7. Blended family: When parents adopt non-genetic offspring, divorce, or remarry other partners

  8. Binuclear family: Two families based on the nuclear form (e.g. the children’s father, their stepmother and her children etc.)

  9. Single-parent family: Family where there are children but only one parent caregiver

  10. System-based: Families are made up of parts but operate as a whole system that can achieve functions that individuals alone cannot, think jenga ( = system theory by Bertalanûy (1950)). Systems are goal-orientated and self-regulating.

    Nonsummative wholeness: Within a system several components work together to produce something more than the sum of its parts

    Discourse dependency: a family must frame and represent themselves to one another and to the outside world through their communication

  11. Transactional: Families can be viewed as performances, created through transaction Norms: The habitual rules for conducting any family activity

    Rituals: Particularly formalized ways for handling situations, say, the routines of mealtimes or birthday gift giving in a family

    Bidirectionally hypothesis: The idea that power can work in two directions. Authority does not come from the fixed status of the family members, but from specific circumstances.

    Kin keeping: The act of serving as a reservoir for information about members of the family who passed along to the other members of the network. This is a way of family storytelling

Confict: Real or perceived incompatibilities of processes, understandings, and viewpoints between people

Conflict as opportunity: Conflict is a normal, useful process. All issues are subject to change through negotiation Direct confrontation and conciliation are valued.

Conflict as destructive: Conflict is a destructive disturbance of the peace. The social system should not be adjusted to meet the needs of individual members, but members should adapt to established values